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I went to the doctors and got a new gynecologist because I turned 18 last year and I wanted to talk about birth control. More specifically tube tying and the IUD. The doctor said he wouldn’t tie my tubes because I’m 18 years old and he said that probably no one would. I asked why and he replied it’s permanent, you might want to change your mind and have kids. I DO want to have kids, i love kids! I just DON’T want to get pregnant, EVER. I want to adopt and I know I will not change my mind. Just because I’m young doesn't mean I don’t know what I want. Why can I get a tattoo and not be questioned about it? Why don’t you just shut the fuck up do your job and be fucking PROFESSIONAL. It’s my fucking body!  

I posted this on my tumblr yesterday. I have more to say about this.

I have a feeling that this general reaction to me getting my tubes tied is because, females are expected to have children and expected to WANT to have children and give birth in their life time. This is a sexist stereotype that is pushed on a female since before we can read. When we are children for a female there are tons of baby toys and baby dolls, I'v heard this more than a few thousand times in my life, "You'll know when YOU have kids some day". Once I told my bio father "what if I don't want to have kids?" and he replied "You will. Every girl does." THIS is why a fucking doctor won't tie my tubes. Not being able to give birth ISN'T the end of the fucking world. There are other ways you can have children! At the age of 18 I'm expected to know what I want to do with my life, start making important life decisions, but for some reason when it comes to my sexual health and reproductive rights I'm "too young". Why is it so hard for people to understand that some females don't want to experience giving birth or don't want kids?? 

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Marla Janckens
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Please use gender neutral pronouns for me. Love sports, having fun, sex, art, reading, going online, nature, singing, talking with the dead. I smoke weed on occasions.
Queer - Pansexual - Polyamorous - Feminist - Nudist - Nymph - Fairy - Witch - Semi vegan - Cat - Rabbit on occasion - Sexologist - Gender fluid - Animal rights activist - Environmental activist - Social justice warrior - Adventurer - Switch leaning more towards sub - Humanist
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should i post videos of me and my choir singing? Or of me and my sister acting? 

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GeroCaldora Featured By Owner 2 days ago  Professional Traditional Artist
Thx for the llama badge and the fave!
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kawaiicherryy Featured By Owner 2 days ago  Professional General Artist
your welcome :)
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Thanks heaps for the fave!
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kawaiicherryy Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional General Artist
no problem :)
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Thanks for the watch :)
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kawaiicherryy Featured By Owner 6 days ago  Professional General Artist
no problem
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Hiyeee! Thanks for +fav!!!
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ur welcome
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thx for watch me sweety
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no problem :3
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